My wife’s mother has been judged to be in need of long-term memory care. She has been approved for it, to be paid by Medicaid, but doesn’t want to go. She would prefer to stay in her apartment (which she can no longer afford) and have us pay the difference, or else move in with us.
We can’t take care of her. We are both over 70. She is incontinent and needs memory help. Can she be forced to accept the approved memory care facility?